It took all I had to get through my break up a year ago. I still struggle- I'll admit. I finally am starting to feel strong again. I'm dating again. I was done trying to convince my ex that we could be friends. That's all I really wanted because mostly I just missed his company. I just gave up on him, because he gave up on me.
Now, all I USED to want from him- he's doing. He's been calling to see if we want to hang out as just friends. He seems sincere. He's being nice and asking how I'm doing. Not bragging about whatever girl he's fallen in love with that week like he used to. It has been a long battle to not think about him. I don't even know why I would want to see him now. There is no reason anymore... I thought?
Should I give the guy a chance? I have always been friends to all of my exs. This last one was a real jerk though. We used to be so close so it's going to be hard to turn him away. Everyone makes mistakes though so should I not turn him away?
Have you ever realized that you were wrong to be cold to someone and tried to be their friend?
How did it turn out?
dsheldon3
12-17-2002, 11:00 PM
[quote]Have you ever realized that you were wrong to be cold to someone and tried to be their friend?
How did it turn out?[quote]
How about have you ever tried to be a guys friend when they are being cold to you?
chinchilla
12-18-2002, 02:39 AM
This guy sounds like he was a TOTAL l-o-s-e-r when you were going out with him. No wonder it took you so long to get over it - he was being such a jerk and you needed to get your self-esteem back!
And now, just when you think you've gotten over him, he comes crawling back. I say don't do it! Even as friends! You are friends with your other ex's but I bet they're better people than this guy is. He had a big hold on you that took you so long to shake, don't undo all your good work. He might have changed but then again he very well might not have. I don't think he deserves it. That's my opinion anyway.
robin25
12-18-2002, 04:14 AM
i think if your not over him completly then i wouldnt put your self inthat position you may say your over him but wait tell you see him with another woman just make sure your feelings are just on that friend level.
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robin rogers
ravekane
12-18-2002, 05:41 AM
I wouldn't do it. Just for the simply cause that he didn't recipricate to you over the last year and he didn't care that U weren't doing well. Now all of a sudden he cares?
NOPE, I would just pass up the oportuinty to hang out w/ him. If you do hang out w/ him those "old" feelings might come back and leave you in a worse place than you were a 1 year ago.
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