Changing mind when making decisions

I think it really depends on the man. Everyone reacts differently to certain situations.
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Originally posted by jasmine30:
Hi,
Do you think it is possible for a man to change his mind after making a decision?For example:If a man has chose to marry a woman he knows hardly anything about and someone else he meets appeals to him?Also,do you think a woman can make a man fall in love easily?Sorry for the putzy questions but I truly need to know..
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I am dealing with this same issue. In my case, the man chose to get married to someone that he wasn't in love with and he knew this before he married her, however he tried to make himself think that things would change. Now, he's trying desparately to get a divorce but the wife is not having it!!

I belive it's possible to change your mind, but I also think that he probably knew that it wasn't right before he married her. It's a very sticky situation.
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Paisley,
He's not married to her YET..He don't love this girl..how can he?I mean he has only met her twice,don't know her last name.In the two years they've known each other,she hasn't told him much about herself..I know him well enough to know that when he gets married he wants it to be,a lifetime commitment.He has alot of thinking to do and Im trying my best to help him realize..

Oh! Ok...so, at least he hasn't made that mistake YET.

Well, there are a number of reasons why people feel the need to just up and marry someone they hardly know. Maybe your friend feels like he is running out of time or that he can't stand being without anyone. Whatever the reason, if you are his friend and you KNOW that he will be making the biggest mistake of his life, then continue to make him see that he needs to take some more time to get to know this girl. However, you can't control someone else's actions (especially men), so if he does it, then you are just going to have to support him in his decision. I know, it sucks. Sometimes you have to let people learn the hard way. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/hammer.gif

BTW-are you that someone that appeals to him?? If so, let me tell you that I know first hand how you feel http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/frown.gif

[This message has been edited by PAISLEY (edited 10-18-2002).]

Right not YET...I believe the reason he upped and said he was marrying her was while there the first time,her parents talked to him ALOT about marriage and the gal told him she had no problem marrying him so he told her he guessed he had no problem marrying her..It wasn't like he got down on one knee and popped the question..He is getting older so thinking about settling,however don't beleive he is ready just yet..Yup Im the someone that appeals to him..