I'm in a LDR. My b/f lives like 35-45 minutes from me. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks now. The last time I saw him was when I went there. The only time I hardly ever see him is if I drive there. He hardly ever drives here unless he needs to come this way for something or is going this way anyway. We don't talk on the phone hardly ever. Maybe once in a blue moon. It's been over a month now since we've talked on the phone. He works long hours during the week all the time and a lot of Saturdays too sometimes. Well, he didn't work this weekend though. But he didn't say nothing about seeing me. So I didn't go there either. All we've done is talked through e-mail. That is the only way we communicate every day is by e-mail. We don't even do couple things together much. I see other couples together, and I'm like why can't I have somene with me all the time? He claims he loves mea and all that though. When I brought up the fact about us not spending much time together, he says he has to work and he has to keep his job and all that. But things are still the same. When I'm over there he'll act like he cares and loves me but all we do mostly is email. I don't know what to do anymore.
rainb0w
10-13-2002, 02:37 PM
oh yeah and we've been together for a little over a year now.
dsheldon3
10-13-2002, 03:03 PM
Ignore him for awhile and maybe he'll wonder whats up and come and see you.Get some other hobbies and be too busy to answer emails.
newdawn
10-13-2002, 04:26 PM
Hun,
It sounds like to me that you are doing all the driving and the communication you should just ignore him and he will wonder I have learned this the hard way in fact I am done with ldr's I always end up doing everything and the guy sits back and does nothing.. I have been in so many relationships you have no idea.. I am 32 still single and I know exactly what you are feeling I think he does love you but a year together and he can't come see you please.. I had a boyfriend who came to see me once a month if I was lucky and well I know he didn't work as much as he said I also had to be the one to ask him to come see me.. I want someone to want to come see me.. I know its not easy to take this suggestion I hate to ignore someone I have OCD so I go crazy if I have to stop talking to someone but it will hopefully make his sit up and wonder and not take you for granted.. this letter was not meant to hurt you I am just letting you know I have and still feel the way you are feeling sweetie..
heres a big hug. (((((((hug))))))))I hope that makes you feel a little better let me know how you are praying for you..
take care,Renee'heres a little hyper dude http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/bouncing.gif
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