Hi everyone...
My boyfriend's mother wants him to start a porn website. This is mine and his 8 month together. I was wanted to know should I fell happy about this or should I be lil on the upset side? I think every girlfriend don't want their man looking at womens breast and other things as well... So should I be right on feeling upset about this? He makes it sound like I'm being the bad one here, I don't see anything bad with what i'm feeling. Do you? Please tell me your opinion. thanks
-Ashly
SnowyLynne
10-15-2002, 01:51 PM
He could get into trouble with the law too!! I'd dump him........
siobhan
10-15-2002, 01:59 PM
I guess the question on my mind is, HIS mother wants him to start a porn web site? What kind of family is this?
I'm pretty pro-porn, but this makes you uncomfortable, and there's nothing wrong with feeling that way.
I wouldn't waste my time with something that made me uneasy.
arcutiemogirl
10-15-2002, 02:08 PM
Well his mother would want to do anything that would make her money, he's really good with computers so... but he said that since i would "freak" out he wouldn't do it. That just makes me more pissed. So if he brings it up again, I think I'll tell him. For my sake just so I wouldn't freak out, I would have to be on the pages too! And see what he comment it about that. Do you think I should handle it that way if he brings it up again? Please respond.
mfry32
10-16-2002, 12:39 PM
I've had to deal with this with an exhusband. Notice the "ex". It's a terrible thing to have to live with.
At least you can break it off now. Just listen to me,
it gets no better; it only gets worse.
He will get in so deep that he'll want to pull you in with him at whatever level he's at. The best think I ever did was leave that man. So my
advise to you is run. You must look out for yourself
because he's not going to now or ever.
nicola76
10-16-2002, 01:34 PM
You almost seem to be asking our permission to be upset with this. Please know that there is NOTHING wrong with you feeling incredibly uncomfortable and uneasy about this. A mother asking her son to start up a porn site is a very weird request. Your boyfriend also has no right to make you feel bad about this porn thing. You're entitled to your feelings.
Another thing, why would you "have to" be on the pages?? What exactly do you mean by this?
My advice is to get out of this situation. It doesn't sound very healthy at all.
Nic
You should get out of the situation--and what are you going to do if he agrees to put you on the web pages---You should get out and keep going , why should you drag yourself down to his and his mothers level--what would be next,prostitution ?Then what would you do?
BGW
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