i really really need help!!!!

the guy i'm with was my cousins bf,and i was his cousin gf.unfortunately my cousin broke up with him for some reason i don't know.afterhe started calling me and telling me how much he cares about me,then left his girl 4 me,i fell in love with him and left my bf(which is his cousin) 4 no reason.now he wants me back(he's 16)and i want him back too.but i don't know how to ( go about )or leave my bf who is (19)(his cousin)
i really need help someone anyone!!

AshLin

10-03-2002, 07:28 PM

Drewbaby,

A week ago you were talking about marriage, the week before that you were considering leaving your boyfriend over a tongue piercing. From reading your posts on other boards, you discuss how you aren't happy with your body.

From everything I have gathered.. I think you should learn more about YOU, and stop worrying about all these boys. You're creating all these knots, entangling yourself into so many different things. I think it's time you unwind, and just run solo for awhile.

Take Care,
Ash

P.S. Do you live in a small town?

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Greenberry

10-03-2002, 09:23 PM

I really can't follow this post at all... I really can't figure out who wants who, and whose cousin is dating who, etc. I have tried drawing a diagram and everything.

I agree with the above advice. It sounds like you need to simplify your life. If I recall, you are still in school. Perhaps you should concentrate on that for a while, or maybe do some reading and introspection on how to improve your life and your relationships. Just a few thoughts!