me and my hubby have been married for 6 yrs our anniversery was on the 3rd but he forgot he never does anything for me this year for x-mas was the first time ever he bought me a gift. We have 3 young kids our oldest is 6 yrs our youngest is 7 months. He plays PS2 all the time and pays no attention to me or his kids and if I tell him I am tired he moans about how I shouldn't be cuz he works over nights but my body is at the point it hurts....he always is fibbing to me and making me cry any more I don't think I love him but I have no place to go.......he never makes any sexural advances I have to always make the first move do u think that is because I am not attractive to him??? I know I gained some weight but if u love some one it doesn't matter I would think cuz he gained some too...when we first met 7 yrs ago I weight 155 and now I weigh 175 and my hubby weighted 155 and now wieghts 205 but I still find him attractive but I am not going to give in and start any thing and it has been 2 weeks since the last time well u know....I don't know what I should do he won't go to councling he won't become a better person should i just leave....????
Teresa882003
02-11-2004, 03:52 PM
Wow, Sounds like you got my Ex husband! LOL Just kidding, I can understand what you are going thru but this is something you have to decide. You will know when you can't take it anymore, plus don't stay for the kids cause it will do them more harm than good! You have to think of you and the kids, do what makes you happy! You can't depend on someone else to make you happy. Good luck to you, even if he won't go to counseling you can go with out him. The United Way offers services that are more affordable. Take care.
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